SmallIslandGirl

just a chick from Trinidad writing about her life on a small island but with big dreams all the same.

Wednesday, November 30, 2005

Marriage part II............

I am so in love with my husband these days I can't keep my hands off him its like we have fallen in love again and its great I don't know whats triggered it who cares anyway. I am so happy now a days today some guys from school called because I haven't been going I mean exams are next week its too late to learn anything else at this stage and they accused me of ditching school to get busy with the husband and yes i'm guilty but thats not their business so I lied and told them i've been studying so much that i don't have energy to go to school which is kinda true i really don't have the energy ha ha ha.

There's this guy who interferes with me most mornings on my way home he tells me things like doodoo keep the bed warm as soon as husband leaves i'll join you he's an old retired man who walks his dogs early in the morning so i don't mind its nice that he looks out for me well he saw me with my husband and the next day he tells me that guy is your husband? he's a great guy I won't ever interfere with you again girl hold on to that man thats how its alway is even my own family will disown me if I mess up my marriage.

Anyway i've been thinking about marriage because of the Jessica & Nick saga and I am sure one of the problems in their marriage was outside interference you know well meaning people like the in-laws giving you stupid advice.

Here are some classic ones my husband and I got in 7 years of marriage.

1. Don't ever give your husband a pedicure because he will kick you afterwards. I don't understand this one at all but a girlfriend told me this when she found out that i sometimes give him pedicures.

2. You can't make more money than your man his ego won't be able to take it and he'll leave you this is silly because my plan is to make so much money that husband could retire early and be my sex slave thats my 5 year plan.

3. If you don't hurry up and get a job she is going to leave you (thats what my mother-in-law told my husband when he was unemployed and down and out ) Oh gosh man if she tried to know me she would have known that I did not marry him for his job i was so mad.

4. Girl you can't get your degree it will mash up your marriage..... i don't know why people think a degree is such a big deal to me its not i think a degree in living is a more valuable than from any university it doesn't mean you are smarter than anybody my husband loves airplanes his aunt tells me he used to sit outside and wait for the planes to fly over their house and guess what he does for a living he fixes airplanes he can fix anything as a matter of fact how many people could say in their lifetime they are doing exactly what they dreamed of as a child I love that about him he's doing exactly what he dreamed and he's very good at it. I know alot of socalled educated people who can't do half of what he does or even understand half of what he does or can say they are happy and fulfilled in their profession.

5. Girl when you first moved here.....(farse neighbour) you were so skinny what happened to you if you keep this up husy will leave you. (This one I am guilty of stressing over but you know what hes put on weight too and you don't hear people telling him stupid things) i just learned to ignore certain people.

Another sign its Christmas i'm making silly lists for everything.

28 Comments:

Blogger San Nakji said...

Wow, a blog from Trinidad. I love it there.
I figure if the guy you married is threatened by things like his wife making more money or being better educated, then he should take a flying leap...

Well, just one guy's opinion I guess.

1:29 AM  
Blogger Abeni said...

Well,I've heard some girls insist that if a man makes less than them then no relationship can happen.Can't say I get that point at all

6:32 AM  
Blogger Lily said...

My dad's thin right. And doesn't really put on weight per se. At some point last year, he started losing or he looked smaller. And then people started making comments about mom not feeding him...

GRRR

Listening to people really isn't good for anybody

8:13 AM  
Blogger Dr. D. said...

Good for you and hubby. Lots of marriges I know a bruk up. Do what it takes to keep the union going and the love hot! ;-)

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Blogger dorna! said...

LOL He'll kick you? What's this some sort of Pavlovian thing?

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Blogger Mad Bull said...

Cho, doh listen to people... except me of course! ;-)

8:40 PM  
Blogger CoolDestiny said...

I think your list is way cooler than mine! Marriage takes a lot of work on both parts so you make sure you do all you can with his "big you know what" and all the other "wifely" stuff and he should do the same.

9:20 PM  
Blogger Scratchie said...

Lots of work and commitment to keep a marriage going. It will work if you both want it to work. Interstingly enough my wife earned more than me for quite a while until she took up teaching and she already has her degree while I'm still working on mine. We are at 18 years and still going.......
Don't follow what people say.

6:11 AM  
Blogger Stunner said...

It's always good to hear about a marriage that is doing well. It takes a lot to keep a great relationship great! So enjoy it even if it means ditching school/work for a piece!

7:23 AM  
Blogger Shotta M said...

No doubt there are always outside voices whispering. I'm glad that you have ignored them and that things are goins so well. Ahh that feeling called love, wish I had it at the moment.

8:49 PM  
Blogger Ri said...

At least you started making lists. You are ahead of me for one!

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Blogger Jdid said...

sometimes you just have to ignore some of this advice

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