just a chick from Trinidad writing about her life on a small island but with big dreams all the same.

Sunday, October 16, 2005

Sunday blogging.................

Do you like getting emails? Well I do especially from other bloggers its like going to your mailbox and getting letters from friends instead of bills that's why I like to write letters so much more personal but in this electronic age people don't like sending snail mail anymore so emails are the next best thing I think.

got an email from a fellow blogger she was nice enough to send me an email about her blog and today she blogged about giving head.

True confession I am not very good at this I think I am the worse my husband has ever had I fit the wife stereotype and I won't get mad if he ever leaves me because of it I'll understand,the thing is they don't teach you these things growing up they teach you to cook and sew keep a clean house I mean I wanted to do wood working in Secondary school but was forced to do Home Economics I could sew a dress,cook a great meal clean and do laundry at the same time but not this and I ein't getting better at it husy doesn't even ask me to do it anymore he's kinda gun shy lets just say after a teeth incident I don't have to give details here use your imagination.

There are somethings I feel I am ok with not being good at you know you accept your limitations after a certain age I can't wear high heels for long my feet swell and ache for hours after, I can't swim it doesn't bother me much but this it bothers me why can't I get past the mental feeling that its wrong and gross and that gag reflex thing. Is there anything a person could do to get rid of the feeling of wanting to puke? Or is it that some people have it and some people doesn't have it and I just have to accept that, but he is such a good lover to me I think he deserves better oh this is so annoying I don't even know why I am blogging about this its TMI.

He's going to leave me I just know it and I don't blame him poor man.


Blogger Jdid said...

a teeth incident. ouch poor guy :-)

7:16 PM  
Blogger smallislandgirl said...

yeah i know.....:-(

7:50 PM  
Blogger ~b*b~ said...

you have me dying up here, girl - you are too honest! don't feel no ways, my cousin and i went to an actual class on this very topic a while back...

10:01 PM  
Blogger Mad Bull said...

So lets talk, what about it makes you gag? Is that when huzy comes, or is it just from having it in your mouth, or is it that you're trying the deep throat thing? If the problem stems from just having that thing in your mouth, then I can't help you... maybe you should see a hypnotist or something, you know?
Now if the problem is really with handling the taste or the flow when he comes, I am sure he can handle coming elsewhere. Once you can trust him to warn you before you are inundated with his, er... juices, you should be able to do a good job. I mean, stimulating a penis is not hard, if you understand me. Watch some porn, see what those ladies are doing and give it a try. Tell huzy say if he likes what is going on, make sure not to try to drown you and things can gwaan for him. If he insists that you swallow, then share some with him and make him swallow first. Tell him that he is to lead from the front, yuh zimi?
If its that you're gagging trying the deep throat thing, well, join the club of women who have that issue... thats prolly 95% of women right there... See, its highly unnatural for you to have something that big passing your tonsils, and worse, coming back up and going back in repeatedly! If husy has a problem, get a green banana peeled, (sugar coat it if you like) and ask him to show you the proper technique. If he can do that, then maybe you might want to worry about not being able to do it to him... and then again, maybe thats not all you have to worry about, because then maybe you'd need to check out where he learned to do dat s_it!
If its a deep throat that hes needing well, maybe you just have to let him go... I'm sure that you can find a more considerate replacement.
Doh do nutten you doh feel like doing, is all I am saying.

11:35 PM  
Blogger smallislandgirl said...

b~b i wish there was a class i could go to here.

mb here goes first I got over the feeling thats its bad and disgusting a while back the thing is I never had to worry about the taste of the flow as you put it because it has never gotten to that point ever my jaw will be tired or he would be frustrated and we'll just stop and don't bother I mean maybe if I see some results I might get more excited about doing it but because I don't have a good technique meaning I don't know what the hell i'm doing you know you end up with two frustrated people and he tells me that maybe he can't come that way but I think he just tells me that so I won't feel bad but I don't think there is a man out there who doesn't like bjs. Anyway the banana thing never occured to me you really mean let him show me himself what he wants me to do with it? Oh God this whole thing is so embarassing its times like this I wish I could be a man just for @ an hour so I can really understand what its like maybe then I could understand.
Anyway thanks for the advice will keep you posted if I get up the nerve to try your suggestions.

12:27 AM  
Blogger Stunner said...

Teeth incident, ouch!

I would suggest mad bull's suggestion about watching those girls on the porn ficks. And just be creative when you're doing it.

The gagging thing, if you're doing the deep-throat thing then that's normal.

2:21 AM  
Blogger JaG said...

OH COME ON!! If he's going to leave you over a fucking blowjob he's NUTS!! Good relationships do not revolve around good BJ's. Come on woman!!

11:09 AM  
Blogger Trouble said...

All bow to the Mad Bull... Er... No pun intended...

SIG... As with everything in life... WHY you do something is more important than HOW you do it.

98% of women cannot give good head for a myriad of reasons... This also applies to pornstars, believe it or not... Money is not sufficient motivation to do anything to the best of your abilities... The ones who ARE very good [e.g.'s... Chloe, Charly, Crystal Knight, and Aurora Snow] take pride in knowing they are 'the best', and are also 'turned-on' themselves by the act...
You are at the first step... Questioning why you feel the way you do.
The only thing to be ashamed of where oral-sex is concerned... Is not being able to give it good, and NOT trying to be better. It is an art-form, like sculpting clay or painting... Everyone has different styles, techniques, and ability that must be developed... Even 'natural-talent' is useless without motivation, instruction, AND lots of practice... And at the end of the day, it is open to interpretation by the 'reciever.'
The key is to research, be open-minded, dedicate the effort, enjoy the quest... AND practice [muscles don't just develop themselves...]

More times than I can remember, I have been told that I am 'amazing' at cunnilingus [even by girls who go both ways]... I'm not bragging... I'm outlining that I was not 'born-with-it'... It took me YEARS of dedicated study to get there, and I look forward to the many more years I have to 'put-in.'
It's not a job... It's an adventure...

11:35 AM  
Blogger smallislandgirl said...

Trouble and JAG I hear you and yes trouble I feel really bad about it not being able to do it good his happiness means a lot to me and JAG my fear is that he may go elsewhere because we all know that good sex is really important in a relationship.

7:23 PM  
Blogger Trouble said...

I feel you miss my point...

"The ones who ARE very good [e.g.'s... Chloe, Charly, Crystal Knight, and Aurora Snow] take pride in knowing they are 'the best', and are also 'turned-on' themselves by the act..."

When you enjoy something... You will feel more at ease, and naturally be better at it...

12:08 PM  
Blogger Mad Bull said...

Ok. Lets try this... I get the feeling he gives you head and you enjoy it. Next time, think about what he is doing with his tongue. Try moving your tongue like that on him, all over, different places and speeds and pressures. Just do anything you feel like. That must be intermixed with taking it into your mouth and moving your head back and forth, simulating the movements that would occur if you were on top of him and you had it in your vagina.
Also, you can cheat: get your hand involved.... jerk him off while paying oral homage to the glans (the head). Finally, licking the testicles is always appreciated.
Go ye forth and blow like a pro. That is all.

8:07 PM  
Blogger Mad Bull said...

By the way, Trouble, maybe you should run a class, rasta. You provide the girls and the instruction, I'll provide a mind open to learning... We have to discuss whichj girls you planning to provide though. I can be picky ;-)

8:09 PM  
Blogger smallislandgirl said...

MB you right yes T really know his stuff he should give classes. you not bad yourself either.:O)

9:50 PM  
Blogger Lily said...

things i can talk about/know about: we got to do both woodwork and home ec in school! yay!

2:59 AM  
Blogger smallislandgirl said...

lily girl you are lucky i think times are different now these days well in my country we have girls going to traditional boys school so things are looking up.

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