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Saturday, October 29, 2005

No Title.............

Boy that earthquake yesterday was something else my husband and i were siting out front on a metal love seat in the front yard watching our son ride his bike then the chair started rocking and i actually said babes stop shaking the chair like that thats when we realized that the trees were vibrating and the water tank was dancing we started arguing about should we go into the house or not and then it stoped real scary of course he scared the s**t out of me last night by shaking the bed i actually thought it was an after shock now my son and i are plotting to catch him as soon as he falls asleep.

I have been sick I was feeling low for sometime now low energy so i went to the doctor thank God found out........ TMI warning!!.........that I had a urinary track infection apparently I have been not taking enough bathroom breaks and was making myself sick I was so relieved but my doctor made me feel so bad i think i am going to find another one he actually asked me why at my age i was going to school how i was neglecting my wifely duties and if my marriage breaks up what will i be left with he kept going on and on and no matter what i said he was saying things like are you trying to convince me or yourself i left his office feeling low and of course now in hindsight i could think of a million things to say to him but my parents taught me to respect my elders so i guess its a generation thing.

Guilt is a hell of a thing though I cleaned the house from top to bottom and i mean clean behind the beds,sofa and every piece of furniture was dusted and vacumed even the bathrooms and i hate cleaning the bathrooms i know i have no reason for feeling like this my marriage survived a difficult pregnancy unemployment money woes whats three years of sacrifice and our son is doing great in school his teacher says so but i did take friday off and go see him in his tiny football gear playing football after school and it was fun.
I did also go to the Roberta Flack show it was great even though in my opinion she acted like a diva but i guess she earned that right a long time ago she gave me chills throughout the night because its like her songs have been a part of my life she sang killing me softly with his was great to see her up close on her piano and i was really impressed with the two guys from Barbados in her band Arturo Tappin he played the sax first time i have ever seen him perform fantastic also Nicholas Brancker i kept wondering is he using a pick to play that guitar? he was amazing felt proud of those guys.

Anyway i have some catching up to do i miss reading about my blog friends so its catch up time.


Blogger JaG said...

Oooh, an earthquake sounds very scary to me! JaB is going to the doctor this week too because he feels so tired all the time. I hope there's nothing wrong with him and I hope you feel better soon.

5:56 AM  
Blogger smallislandgirl said...

thanks i hope he feels better too.

5:59 AM  
Blogger Mad Bull said...

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7:34 AM  
Blogger Mad Bull said...

Sorry to hear about the quake. At least it seems to have been relatively small and not to have caused any damage.

Re the doctor, him pass him place.
I would make another appointment and go back to him and tell him that I came back to help him with HIS problem.
I'd then remind him about the stuff he was saying last time. I would tell him that if your marriage was destroyed, at least you'd end up with the degree and enhanced employment opportunities and you wouldn't have to depend on no man.
I'd tell him that marriage is not the be all and end all of my existence. There is a life out there for me, whether married or not. If he knew anything at all, he should know that most divorced women report leading happier lives after their divorce, so he should disabuse himself of the notion that women NEED to be married, or to have a man in their lives all the time.
Then I'd tell him that talking to patients like that nowadays will cause you to lose them. I'd tell him that the attitudes he was displaying were from the Dark Ages and he should get himself up to date before he lost all his female patients.
Then I'd tell him that hes lost one patient because of his chauvinistic attitude so far - you.
Then I'd give him a bill (invoice) for my time and advice.

If you don't think you can say all that in person, write him a letter and leave it with the nurse/receptionist for him. Don't forget the bill though.

7:37 AM  
Anonymous Quel said...

U.T.I.s are the worst.

I've never expeienced an earthquake before, but I imagine it must be freaky.

I think if you're taking care of your family's needs the best way you can, regardless of what anybody outside of your house says, you have nothing to feel guilty about.

12:13 PM  
Blogger Abeni said...

Ditto MB.That doc must be from the Stone Age..loud stewppssssssss.I bet he can't wrap himself around the idea that women actually go out to work,Girl,don't bother with him you just find a balance between your family and your school and do your thing.

4:32 PM  
Blogger Ri said...

That doc was outta line for sure. Rude. The concert sounds like it was fun.. don't let anyone stop you from studying - keep it up.

5:21 PM  
Blogger Dr. D. said...

Maybe you shudda given that (if you can call him a Doc) Doc a golden shower.....part of the therapy!? Him pass him place yes.

Heard about the quakes...second one in a week I understand. Good to hear nutten serious happened.

7:01 PM  
Blogger smallislandgirl said...

you guys are right he is from the dark ages and mb thanks for the suggestion.

7:23 PM  
Blogger Yamfoot said...

slap the doc!

9:35 PM  
Blogger smallislandgirl said...

hehehe yamfoot.

11:44 PM  
Blogger Fyr said...

I can relate on the earthquake issue... the thought of one coming at night while I am indisposedly asleep keeps me awake at nights quite often.

As for that doctor -him is very out of order indeed. Find one new one yes!!!

3:41 PM  
Blogger smallislandgirl said...

fyr the earthquake was a 5.2 and it scary imagine if it was a bigger one even now i sometimes get flashbacks and you're right about the doctor.

6:38 PM  
Blogger CoolDestiny said...

His wife probably left him and he's bitter towards every woman who furthers her education because that's what his EX-wife used to do. Just my theory .. we all know misery loves company.

I love Roberta Flack. MY favorite song though is The First Time. It is absolutey beautiful!

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