just a chick from Trinidad writing about her life on a small island but with big dreams all the same.

Monday, September 19, 2005

Dear H..............

Dear H,

I did not say anything when you took it upon yourself to bake pastries and goodies for my husband on a weekly basis I told myself he likes those things and since I can't bake good for him you are so kind.

I did not say anything when you lent him your brand new car when you went on your vacation even though a dent on it may cost us a years salary I said good for him driving around feeling like a pimp in a car he can't afford but I did find it strange that you will lend him your car but your flesh and blood son can't even drive it.

I did not say anything on those evenings when he had to jump at your beck and call when you wanted a light bulb changed or even your fish tank cleaned.

But today you crossed the line when you decided to give him a neck massage right infront of me and decided to lecture me about how i'm not doing my wifely duties and taking care of my husband excuse me, but I can take very good care of my man thank you very much.

I just have one question for you if you are such a man expert why don't you have a man?

Yours truly,


This is a letter that I wish I could send to a certain family friend but it will hurt her feelings so instead I'll put it on my blog yes I am a big coward.


Blogger Dr. D. said...

Stand your ground SmIG!!

9:07 AM  
Blogger Jdid said...

come on girl, ya gotta get some courage an say sumting when things bothering ya

1:37 PM  
Blogger Trouble said...

You shouldn't let that side babe... Set your boundaries with her before she oversteps even more... Serious, I know this situation...

Or, jus ambush her, put her in a box, and mail her to me... I could use a neck massage... ;-)

2:30 PM  
Blogger Scratchie said...

say what needs to be with the consequences as they come. It may hurt her feelings but I think it's hurting yours now so.....

2:42 PM  
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2:42 PM  
Anonymous Safa said...

Please say something! Don't let this slide. BTW, if it weirds you out and bothers you...she knows it! Women are the same all over...

4:08 PM  
Blogger smallislandgirl said...

Thanks you guys but I really don't have it in me to confront her so I spoke to my husband about it instead of course he thinks I am overeacting but I told him if I had a male friend who was behaving the same way he would not like it.
I guess we will have to see.

6:45 PM  
Blogger ~b*b~ said...

man, what an effing BLEEP. there - i'll say it for you :)

8:09 PM  
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8:10 PM  
Blogger msjaim said...

SIS.. u should really check her a$$.. what she is doing is disrespectful!!! Do u want me to whoop her a$$ 4 you?.. ppl Have no repect for eachother anyore nothing is sacred.. as I always say, we know violence doent help anything.. but she kneeds her tail cracked for that one.. keep talking to ur husband about it too, cuz it kind of concerns me he thinks ur overreacting.. good luck to u w/ this bcuz it sound serious!

8:13 PM  
Blogger Abeni said...

You should have said something if it bothered you.Just ler her know you resent the implication that you are not doing your duties or whatever it was she said.

8:36 PM  
Anonymous said...

This must be a small island thing to rass. If you were Jamaican i can guarantee you that you woulda bus har face long time. dwl

Anyways, lemme leave with my bigger-small island ignorance. lol

8:52 PM  
Blogger smallislandgirl said...

wow you guys really get how i felt she really did hurt my feelings.

I know she likes him a lot you can't help but like him but I am one of those cry when I am angry people and can never speak and I always wonder if its a small island thing too because we make sense.tend to be a bit too familiar here and ppl tend to feel its ok to say certain things to you.

9:19 PM  
Blogger Campfyah said...

girl, you better stand up for your man, if you don't have it in you to confront herm just get someone that you trust or confide in to do it for you.

9:32 PM  
Blogger -jkg said...

you need to tell her something. for real. or at least tell him.

it wont get better if you dont.

9:54 PM  
Blogger Mad Bull said...

You want me to send Natty to deal wid her case? Natty doh romp wid feisty gyal, you know... ;-)

Actually, Natty is the type who won't say something most of the time, but when she says enough is enough, well.... its on!

10:35 PM  
Blogger Stunner said...

Brap brap my girl! Like di last part! Yow mek dat girl know seh a fi yuh man! A dis shi a dis yuh infront a yuh man, run dat @%*^#!%

(Note: I'm still at anger managment.)

But a serious ting tell him how yuh feel, den if dat nuh work race up da gal deh!

5:37 AM  
Blogger Naked Boy said...

You go girl. I love it!!!!

7:47 PM  
Blogger Yamfoot said...

"Dear family friend....

What you playing at, rubbing down my man in front of me????"

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